How to introduce sex toys to your relationship
Although sex toys can add a maximum of pleasure to your relationship, getting your partner involved can be a bit tricky. Katie Fox, sex expert at Bondara.co.uk, shares her tips on how to smoothly introduce toys to your couple.
choose the right time
ease into the conversation gently
reassure your man
do your research
shop for sex toys together
If your other half still isn’t keen on the idea, don’t push it! It is important that both of you feel comfortable introducing sex toys into your relationship. Leave the subject alone for the time being and focus on experimenting with other things in the bedroom. It may be using erotic massage oil or an intimate massager to give each other a sensual massage or introducing sexy outfits for some fun fantasy play. As your partner becomes more comfortable with different sensations and experiences they may warm up to the idea of sex toys.
Try this sex toy: The Rocks Off Luv Massager is waterproof for bath time or shower play, with five deeply satisfying vibration settings.
Give your man a sex toy as a gift and allow him to experiment and get comfortable with it on his own before introducing it into your couple play. Once he’s had the chance to discover the toy and the pleasurable sensations it brings, you may find he’s keen to share the experience with you!
Try playing with: The Jimmy Jane Hello Touch is the latest in sex toy technology! The vibrating pads put powerful buzzing sensations at your fingerstips.
let your partner control your pleasure
A common problem men have with sex toys is the fear of being left out. To ensure a sex toy is a win-win, shop for couple specific sex toys such as cock rings or wearable toys that offer an array of pleasurable possibilities for both you and your partner.
Try this: The Lelo vibrator is has two ends, one to sit on the clit and the other in the vagina, so both partners get the full benefit of vibration patterns no matter what position they’re in.
turn him into the sex toy!
A good way to get him on board with the idea is to choose a product that he can wear so that essentially he turns into the sex toy! This ensures that his manhood is still the central focus of your sex session and the sex toy just becomes a means to enhance both your pleasure during normal penetration.
Try this: With the 4US cock ring, the man becomes the vibrator as the removable RO-80mm bullet vibe sends powerful vibrations up and down his penis and stimulates the clitoris as well
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