50 Shades Further: How To Take Your Bondage Play to the Next Level

Gone are the days where people heard the words BDSM and frowned upon it. Ever since movies like Fifty Shades of Gray made their appearance on the big screen, more and more people are opening the doors to their risky sexual playgrounds.

If you and your partner(s) are into bondage, there are ways to take things to the next level and truly increase the amount of pleasure you both receive. Don’t stop reading; now continue and find new ways to incorporate bondage toys and gear into your sessions.

Give Into the Heat

When we say give in to the heat, all it means is to have fun with temperature play. Nothing will get your partner more excited than being hot and feeling something cold sliding against their body.

If you’re into using bondage toys, you can think about temperature when considering the material that your toys are made out of. For example, if you’ve got a variety of glass toys, you can take them in place them in a container of cold water in preparation for your sexual escapades.

Another way to incorporate temperature in your bondage play is to use hot wax. Ensure you don’t overheat the wax because the last thing you want to do is burn your partner.

Orgasm Denial

Once you’ve reached your climax for some people, that’s where the fun ends, but what if you don’t want the fun to end. Another way you can take your bondage play to the next level is by using orgasm denial as a tactic in your session.

It’s like a cat and mouse game where you take your partner as close to the edge as possible and pull back before they go over. After you’ve stopped, take a couple of minutes to allow them to cool down, and then do it over again.

The best part about orgasm denial is that you can use toys, machines, your mouth, and more to pull it off.

Incorporate Bondage Furniture

Don’t want your partner to run away from you while you’re pleasuring them? Think about purchasing bondage furniture to keep them in place.

There are several types of furniture that you can look into that come with their own set of quirks and kinks. For example, if you enjoy a good bit of doggy-style action, you could select furniture that locks your partner into that position.

Or you could find furniture that keeps your partner in the missionary position; therefore, no matter how much they want to stop after climaxing, they have to stay in position and enjoy being pleasured.

Toys, Toys, Toys Galore

Bondage play only gets better when you add more toys to the mix. You can introduce toys to your sessions, depending on what you’re in the mood for.

If you and your partner have considered anal play, we recommend purchasing some anal plugs. This will help you work your way up to the big leagues without causing your partner any pain.

Another toy that you can bring into your sessions is cock rings. Cock rings help your partner to maintain an erection throughout your intimate moments.

Heighten Your Senses

Orgasming is your body’s response to being pleasured; once your body has reached a certain point, a significant amount of dopamine is released and spreads throughout the body. To take bondage play to the next level, you should think about using CBD before your session.

Consuming CBD edibles can help you, and your partner relax, forcing you to let go of any inhibitions you have and enjoying what’s about to occur. You can also use other products such as CBD oils and lotions while giving or receiving a massage to truly get into the mood.

Light Discipline

If you’re into the submissive and dominant roles that come with bondage play, this will help make things better. In some bedrooms, spanking, your partner could get you hot and bothered and ready for serious action.

Of course, if you and your partner agree to spanking, start lightly and work your way up from there. If you’re causing your partner pain that breaches the lines of fun and enjoyment, you need to stop.

But, since we’re on the topic of spanking, as Rihanna sings, ‘whips excite me,’ you can use whips, feathers, and tons of other sensory toys to engage in your sensual acts of discipline.

Bite Me

Biting can be used to take things to the next level in ways you’d never even imagined. Before you start your next bondage session, we recommend that you take the time to research erogenous zones.

Knowing where these zones are will help you pinpoint the areas that you need to bite. If you know which areas are hotspots for your partner, those are the areas that you need to target when biting.

It might also help if you switch between biting, licking, and caressing these areas. Before you know it, you’ll have them on the edge of climaxing without the need for penetration.

Bondage Play Every Day

There are tons of ways that you can use the tips we’ve provided to make your bondage sessions much more rewarding than they already are. If you want to tease your partner without penetration, take advantage of their senses and engage in sensory play by biting them.

If you need to add some toys to your collection, check out the products we have at the New Fine Arts. If you need extra tips, we’ve got a section for that too.